|How to flirt online
|Are you ready to jump into the online
dating game? With 50 million active subscribers to dating services
in the U.S., you just can't overlook this opportunity if you are
Once you enter this wide web of daters, what can you write in emails
to entice your top picks to share coffee talk with you? What are
the secrets to flirting online?
When jumping online, use these 3 Online Flirting Success Keys and
10 Email Enticers that can help you get to first dates faster.
These advice tips are based on hundreds of interviews with active
internet daters for my book, SMART Man Hunting -How to Get Out There,
Get Dates, and Get Mr. Right (or Ms. Right).
3 Online Flirting Success Keys:
1. Keep it Simple: Use light-hearted emails with an upbeat tone
to attract dates online. A 40-something female painter shared, "
Make your responses simple and use easy questions in your emails
to flirt." There is no need for long emails either. A 42-year-old
Accountant told me, "I can tell if I am interested in 3-4 sentences."
2. Humor is your Ally: A 35-year-old male film editor from Baltimore
told me, "It depends on the person. You need to be able to
read the person to tell what kind of humor you can get away with.
Humor is definitely sexy and so is confidence because girls pick
3. Hand out Compliments: One of the best ways to flirt online is
to extend a sincere compliment. One 28-year-old Financial Analyst
told me, "I always try to say something subtle, but sincere."
You might say to someone who plays the guitar, "I think it
is awesome that you play guitar." She added, "Be sincere
and don't throw out phony baloney."