If you think there is a chance that your spouse might be cheating on you, I want to show you a quick and easy way to find out for sure. Dealing with this type of suspicion can grate on your nerves - you deserve to know the truth about whether or not your partner is being faithful. There are more and more people that are hiring private investigators to "spy" on their spouse. However, you don't need to go to such an extreme! Whenever we get an email from someone who is considering using a private investigator to see if anything "fishy" is going on, we always recommend using the following method first.
You will be happy to know that this "detective's trick" is fast, very easy and hardly costs a dime. You will need to follow three steps for it to work - let's look at each one. Step #1 - Could Your Spouse Be Cheating? In the first step you need to be a touch on the sneaky side.
You will need to get a hold of your spouse's cell phone for about 15 minutes so you can look at it without worrying about anyone walking in and "catching" you. There are many different times you can choose to do this - perhaps your spouse just stepped out to the store or mall without their phone of they have just jumped in the shower. Just make sure you have in around 15 minutes of alone time with their cell phone.
Once you get a hold of their cell phone grab a pen and paper and get comfortable. You are going to look over their entire call history. Most cell phones keep track of the last 100 calls - look at both the incoming and outgoing call history lists and write down every phone number that you see. When you are making your list, you can leave off any phone number that you know you recognize.
You just want to make sure that you are writing down each and every phone number that doesn't look familiar to you. After you have your list of phone numbers completed, discretely put back the phone and move on to step #2. Step #2 - Are You Married To A Cheater? Now it's time to find out exactly who your spouse has been chatting with. There's a way that you can find out someone's full name, address and background information by having nothing but their phone number. How is this done? There are companies that pu together databases that contain information on the owner information for every phone number (this includes cell phone and unlisted numbers).
These companies then let people search through the database to find out information on any phone number they want to "investigate". This type of search is call a "reverse phone lookup" and is done online right from your computer. You just enter the phone number and the person's full details (name, address etc) is shown on your computer screen. You can try a free sample search by using the link that we have included at the bottom of this article. This will show you exactly how it works.
There is a fee for using this type of service, but it isn't expensive. Make sure you look for a company that offers unlimited searches for a one-time only fee. Your list will most likely have more than one or two phone numbers so you don't want to have to pay for each individual search you use. Go through your list and run a search for each phone number.
As you do this, write down the information you find out about each one next to the number on your list. At this point it's time to go to the last step. Step #3 - Is Your Spouse Cheating On You? Now you have a list of all the people that your partner has been chatting with (and how often). This information makes it easy to spot any suspicious patterns about whether or not your spouse is cheating. Pay attention to the names that you see on your list. There are many times that people will suspect that their spouse is seeing someone else in particular - if this fits your situation, does that person's name show up? Once you know exactly who your spouse has been talking to it's incredibly easy to spot if anything "fishy" is going on.
This is a quick and easy way for you to find out if your spouse is cheating and whether you are with a person who is treated you with the respect you deserve.
Check out www.easyreversephonelookup.com to use a free sample reverse phone search on any phone number. Use the following link to find out how to catch a cheater using tried and tested techniques!